Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts

Monday, August 17, 2009

Saturday

We had THE best time on our Bodie trip Saturday!

We met Wirecutter (click the link to check out his blog-your daily dash of humor!) in Bridgeport about 10:30-he thinks he was late but we really didn't notice. Gave us a chance to people watch and read for a minute-then started the trek to Bodie. It's about 15 miles from Bridgeport, CA-the last 3 are on a very bumpy dirt/gravel road. I had already been doing my happy/excited dance all morning-but once the town came into view I could barely contain myself!



That is a view of the town from the cemetery-it's the best overall view. You can see that it was actually a good sized town.

There are quite a few homes and businesses you can peek into and get a really good feeling of how people lived back then. I don't remember the exact dates, but the town started as a booming mining town around 1860 and remained occupied until the early 1930's. The state of California eventually stepped in and made it a state park in the early 1970's I believe.

I took close to 200 pictures, so I'm just going to post the ones that really touched me-otherwise this would be the longest blog post EVER.







Looking into the homes, you can imagine what life must have been like. Can you imagine being a wife and mother in 1870? Wearing those big heavy dresses, having to gather wood for your cooking, water from down at the river, all the while trying to keep your children safe from the debauchery while praying to God your husband made it home from the mine? It gives me chills, it really does.

And check this out-they used burlap to insulate their houses, poor things. It can snow up to 6 feet in Bodie-I can't even imagine what it must have been like trying to stay warm.



Hubbs and Wirecutter-look at that glassed in front porch-



No matter where we go, Hubbs can ALWAYS find an interesting car to look at-





And yes, that includes wagons-look at the axle, I'm pretty sure it's a tree branch.



The houses of prostitution and most of the bars burned in one of the fires, but the street where the ladies were located was called Maiden Lane, or Virgin Alley. So I thought I'd get a picture of my sweet innocent self next to the sign-



A shot of a gambling hall-





And check out the legs on this billiards table-thanks to Wirecutter for pointing out it was a billiards table, not a pool table. I didn't even notice!



Hubbs and I-Wirecutter knows a good spot for a photo! I love the ivy growing over the railing-



Wirecutter and I-by the way, I decided that this was the first annual Bloggers to Bodie run-it needs to be a tradition. I'm thinking next time we get a camp space for the night.




He's a really great guy-low key, no bullshit-we got along great. And his knowledge of Bodie is impressive.

It's very easy to get overwhelmed with not just the information, but the feeling of how hard life was back then. We took a cruise through the museum (which was packed with people-I actually took one step in, was about to turn around and go back out, when I realized that the guys were right behind me. I almost lost it there for a sec, but I was saved from myself at the last minute!), and saw some very interesting things-jewelry and hair combs, shoes and old maps-it was really cool.

I'd be very interested to learn more about the attitude toward death back then, and the mourning practices. Not that there was a lot of time to mourn-you couldn't take a day off from fetching water and firewood- but check this out-




That struck me as incredibly romantic.

And the hearse-why did it become uncivilized to drive through down with the casket in plain view?






We visited the cemetery last, and it got to be a bit much for me. The majority of the graves were for children-that and the fact that there were so many unmarked, I started to get quite overwhelmed.









This first picture is of a monument to Rosa May, one of the prostitutes in Bodie. I love this picture-you can really sense Wirecutters feelings for the history and hardship these people faced. And I love Hubbs' look of curiosity. The second picture is of her actual grave, several feet away. She wasn't allowed to be buried in the cemetery-God forbid she should lay next to "respectable" folks.







All in all, we had one of the best days we've had in a long time. Good friends, good food, and a day of learning, exploring and hanging out. Not only did we picnic (well, tailgate) but I splurged and had SAMMICHES! Gotta toss the diet out the window every now and again. Though I'm sure hiking around town for 4 hours burned off a ton of calories.

Thanks again to Wirecutter-he really helped bring the town alive for us. We could not ask for a better tour guide.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

What a weekend...

I spent an hour on a post detailing my weekend and everything that went wrong-there was a lot. Then I decided I didn't actually want to post that much negativity, I just needed to vent. So I deleted the whole thing. Suffice it to say, the weekend did not go as planned, but I was able to find a few pockets of fun here and there.

Hanging out in a bar-(the face explains it)



It was Hot August Nights, so we went downtown to look at cars and listen to music-





Wonder how many beers I had by this point-



Music of the evening-THE VILLAGE PEOPLE!! (Which, FYI, some people REALLY love. So if you find yourself at a Village People concert, do not poke fun. I thought it was hilarious-other people, not so much)







How can you NOT laugh your ass off at 5 grown men playing dress up and dancing around like that?

And of course, my favorite, people watching-

Mullet Man!!!



The best ice chest I have ever seen!



And this is who I want to be when I grow up-check the curl-







That old lady + that ride on ice chest + 50 cats = Lula in 25 years.

Dancers!





Someday Husband, you WILL dance with me in public.

How cute is this-



I wish the weekend would have gone differently, but whatever. It was good seeing Terry again. I hope she finds the happiness she deserves, I really do.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Franky



Franky and Lula, 1998.

UPDATE:


I just received an email from Franky's daughter. He passed away peacefully August 6th. Rest in peace my friend. You will be missed.

I'm devastated.



I first met Franky in 1984 when I was 16 years old. He was friends with my ex-husbands parents.

He was the first non-relative to hold Oldest when he was born 2 years later.

We kept in touch off and on throughout the years, but our friendship was really cemented when I moved back to Orange County after I had Youngest in 1996.

Youngest called him "Grandpa Franky". We went to Grandpa Franky's house for a meal at least twice a week, just to visit and enjoy each others company.

Things got really crazy for me shortly after that picture was taken. And every once in a while I would just need to get the hell away from the crowd I was running around with, and at those times I'd call Franky and spend the weekend with him, away from the insanity.

He never judged me. He was always there to lend a hand. He would do anything for me, and he did.

Franky has suffered a massive stroke. He can no longer eat or walk, and he is in a hospice care home that is working hard at keeping him comfortable.

I spoke with him this morning, and while he was so excited I called, I could tell it was a bit too much effort to talk on the phone. I told him I loved him and would call him again soon. He asked after the kids and told me this-

"You take good care of your husband and children."

And I promised him I would.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Learn it, Live it!

A friend of mine is going through a very hard time right now-out of work, court case regarding her daughter, etc...

I called her last night to check in on her, and I heard the strangest thing-me, giving advice that I should be taking.

"Stop beating yourself up over things you did in the past. That's a dangerous place for us to be."

"You did what you thought was right."

"You are talented and skilled-if it wasn't for this economy, things would be totally different. It's not your fault."

"Look how far you have come. You've completely changed your life-give yourself credit for all the changes you have made."

"You're surrounded by people who love you-don't forget that."

Weird, that I can say all those things when I forget them myself so easily.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

New Layout!

What do you think? Courtesy of Little Wing-thanks Woman!

Saturday, November 29, 2008

This and That

I have been so busy the past few days. It's been a nice busy though, hanging out with family and friends.

A few quick updates-

Here is a picture of the bacon wrapped jalapeƱos I made. They were DELICIOUS! I highly recommend them. I paid for it them the next day with my acid reflux, but they were so worth it.



Again, thanks to Pioneer Woman for the recipe. Find it here.

Little Wing, her mother, and I went to see Australian Pink Floyd last night. They're a Pink Floyd cover band, and they were awesome! If you're a fan of Pink Floyd, I highly recommend seeing the show if they come around your neck of the woods. Learn more about them here.

After the show I met Hubbs, his brother and the kids at the bowling alley and bowled a few games. I actually bowled three strikes in a row, and I beat the pants off of them the last game. Go me!

All this activity has left me a very tired girl. Today is relax, barbecue steaks, and spend some time with the family before they leave tomorrow.

Have a great weekend!

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Hard At Work

Lulabelle: meh and pre are a match made in heaven
Little Wing: i bet they both sit there and think about themselves while the other is going on and on
Lulabelle: i bet youre right
Lulabelle: :bz
Lulabelle: thats supposed to be a bee
Lulabelle: : bz
Lulabelle: damn it
Little Wing: bee is broken
Lulabelle: poor bee
Little Wing: there she goes from office to office with her sad story
Lulabelle: i havent heard it yet but im sure i will
Little Wing: you're next!!!!!!!!!!
Lulabelle: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Lulabelle: what is this yahoo radio you use?
Little Wing: yahoo launch radio
Lulabelle: tahnks
Lulabelle: thanks
Lulabelle: dyselxia
Lulabelle: hilarious
Little Wing: awesome
Lulabelle: i have to use internet explorer?
Little Wing: yes
Lulabelle: that is a bunch of BULLSHIT
Little Wing: it's craptastic
Lulabelle: craptabulous

One hour later-

Little Wing: oh dear god, my ears are crying
Lulabelle: that was a long ass lecture/conversation
Little Wing: i guess i better get used to it
Lulabelle: why? the ***** stuff?
Little Wing: yep
Lulabelle: poor you
Little Wing: BOSS HAS BEEN KINDA WEIRD ABOUT ALL THIS
Little Wing: SORRY FOR YELLING!!
Lulabelle: ITS OK
Lulabelle: what do you mean weird
Little Wing: he just kinda avoided the whole thing and then today the only thing he said was "are you happier in here?"
Lulabelle: i think he barely knows whats going on, in general
Lulabelle: dont trip potato chip
Little Wing: k
Little Wing: i won't if you tell me not to oh wise Lula
Lulabelle: he never says hi to me unless im right in front of him, he introduces people to everyone up here but me, etc....
Lulabelle: he has some weird thing in his hand that I have not yet identified
Little Wing: maybe he's afraid he'll slip and admit his love for you
Lulabelle: maybe you make him nervous because he thinks youre ROJO CALIENTE
Lulabelle: get out of my head
Little Wing: thing in his hand???
Lulabelle: i meant head, but hand is funnier
Lulabelle: im blogging this i think
Little Wing: our crazy convo?
Lulabelle: yes maam
Lulabelle: they make me laugh

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Hard At Work, Honest

Lula: do you ever feel bad for the evil thinks you think?

Little Wing: rarely

Lula: lucky ass. as soon as i have an evil thought about, for example, that guy, i instantly feel bad

Little Wing: psh

Little Wing: what was the thought???

Lula: that i want to punch him in the face so it will jar him out of his stupor.

Lula: and how dumb do you have to be if whats her face looks smarter than you

Little Wing: that is perfectly reasonable

Lula: see? im going to hell

Little Wing: nope

Lula: that is why i love you. you think my thinks are reasonable.

Lula: perhaps i will blog this insane conversation

Little Wing: we are equally whack-a-doo

Little Wing: you have to include the random outbursts

Lula: k

Little Wing: so...lemme get this straight...whats his nuts isn't going to get a job that requires him to lift over 20 lbs because it might hurt their settlement???

Little Wing: Loser!

Lula: what a frickin douche BAG

Lula: what fucking settlement? i thought all the lawyers told them they didn't even have a case

Little Wing: I'm starting to think she is a little lair

Little Wing: liar

Lula: a little lair? like where jungle cats and rodents live? trolls and such?

Little Wing: hehe

Little Wing: keeps eating butter

Lula: KEITHS EATING BUTTER

10 Random Things About Me

I admit, I stole this idea from Little Wing, and it seems the perfect opportunity to introduce you to her.Check her out at Butterflies and Zebras. Little Wing is the girl previously known as "Work Friend"-I'm sure you will love her as much as I do!

1. I don't bite my nails, I chew on my fingers. I know, gross.
2. I cry when houseplants die.
3. I kick ASS at Jeopardy!
4. I once ate nothing but french toast for 6 months.
5. I'm allergic to Vicodin and Codeine. Bummer, I know.
6. I've been on my own since I was 15.
7. My husband is the first man I've ever been with who I have never called names.
8. I look horrid in photographs.
9. I either love you or hate you. You know who you are.
10. I have the worst singing voice EVER. And I sing very, very loudly at home.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Update!

We had bartender/hairdresser friend over for dinner last night. It was nice spending time with her in a normal setting. Now that she doesn't work at the corner bar I don't see her as often. Which is good in one way-I am completely burned out on bars. But bad, because we both get so busy it's hard to catch up with each other.

Someone tried to break in to her house a few months ago. He boyfriend bought her a gun, but she doesn't know how to use it. We're going to try to get together Saturday so he can give her a few lessons. Hubbs and Youngest like to shoot, so we'll make a day of it. Sandwiches!!

So, the update. Remember Garden Friend's girlfriend-the "I better not accidentally get pregnant" girl? She's in prison. Sentenced to 2 years for her FOURTH drunk driving.

I guess accidentally getting pregnant is no longer a concern!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Skeered!

I just sent Work Friend a link to this blog. It has been my deep, dark, secret. But, what the hell. You have to let go sometime, right?

Before sending the link, I went back and read the whole entire thing (yes I do know I'm a loon)and I realized I don't update for shit. I write whats on my mind and never post a follow up.

So, since all 2 of you might be wondering what happened with a few things, here you go.

1. I let work friend read my short story. She said it needed some work, more detail here and there, but that it could be good. As in, I should keep writing. Woo hoo!

2. The insurance paid all but $300.00 of my teeth. Thank GOD.

3. I'm sure there's more, but I have the attention span of a hummingbird. So if you really want to know, ask.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Proof The Honeymoon Is Not Over

Me: My back hurts.

Work Friend: Probably because you spend so much time on it. Ooh, wicked burn!

Me: I'm married. But that was still hilarious. And true.